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I’m Benedicte, founder of Tugboat, but first and foremost mother to three amazing young adults with additional needs. Here, you’ll find news of what I’m up to, how I hope Tugboat can help you, and the occasional thought that occurs to me!

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The Cost of asking for help

A very long time ago, once upon a time, in the depths of the fog of the great long past, I was a young mother. I had two little children who were growing up and learning and causing the usual havoc that toddlers do. We lived in the beautiful bubble of home that so many…

Why Legal Rights Matter: Protecting Children with SEND

A New Year brings reflection. My three children, all with SEND, have grown into young adults thanks to the legal protections of their EHCPs. One child might not have survived without early support, another recovered from trauma because of a tailored school placement. These are not just policies—they are lifelines. Threats to these rights put…

Coproduction on the frontline of SEND

Contradiction and compromise abound in the world of special educational need and disability. We have good legislation yet far too little resource to implement it. And it is crucial that our community keep working with elected officials to ensure they realise the importance of those legal rights, but it’s equally important to find a way…

About Me

At Tugboat, we want to help you find practical ways to live life family first, disability second…